"I have never welcomed the weakening of family ties by politics or pressure" - Nelson Mandela.
"He who travels for love finds a thousand miles no longer than one" - Japanese proverb.
"Everyone has the right to respect for his private and family life, his home and his correspondence." - Article 8 of the European Convention on Human Rights.
"When people's love is divided by law, it is the law that needs to change". -
David Cameron.

Showing posts with label tom. Show all posts
Showing posts with label tom. Show all posts

Thursday, 8 May 2014

Immigration rules could tear dad away from two kids

http://www.dailyrecord.co.uk/news/local-news/immigration-rules-could-tear-dad-3513194

'A distraught couple face being split up by immigration chiefs ... just weeks before their second child is born.




'Lyndsey Burke and her long-term boyfriend Tugrul Keseli, both 29, are heartbroken after the Home Office turned down his plea for a visa extension.

'Tugrul – known to friends as Tom – missed the birth of their daughter Alara three years ago after being refused permission to come to Scotland from his native Turkey.

'He was later able to travel here on a holiday visa and the couple have been living together in Linwood since 2011.

'However, the latest ruling means Tugrul could be deported before their second daughter, who is due to be born on May 23, arrives.

'Lyndsey told the Paisley Daily Express: “We’re just numbers on a sheet of paper to the people who made this decision.'


Please sign Lyndsey and Tom's petition :
https://www.change.org/en-GB/petitions/upper-tribunal-stop-putting-a-price-tag-on-love-and-rights-to-be-a-family-in-the-uk 
 
Previously :
http://britcits.blogspot.co.uk/2014/04/stop-putting-price-tag-on-love-and.html

Tuesday, 6 May 2014

Linwood Couple: Let Us Stay Together

http://www.heart.co.uk/scotland/news/local/linwood-couple-let-us-stay-together/

' A Renfrewshire couple are facing the prospect of being split up by the Home Office, weeks before their second child is due.

'Lyndsey Burke and Tugrul Keseli, who're both 29, live in Linwood with their 3-year-old daughter Alara and have been together since 2008. Tugrul, known as Tom, is Turkish, and is fighting to stay in Scotland.

'Lyndsey said: ''To bring this to your door three weeks before you're due to give birth I think is just cruel. They absolutely know every detail, they know everything that's going on. Just absolutely devastating.''


Lyndsey and Tom's petition :
https://www.change.org/en-GB/petitions/upper-tribunal-stop-putting-a-price-tag-on-love-and-rights-to-be-a-family-in-the-uk

 

Previously :
http://britcits.blogspot.co.uk/2014/04/stop-putting-price-tag-on-love-and.html

Sunday, 27 April 2014

Stop putting a price tag on love and rights to be a family in the UK

https://www.change.org/en-GB/petitions/upper-tribunal-stop-putting-a-price-tag-on-love-and-rights-to-be-a-family-in-the-uk



Lyndsey and Tom's campaign to keep their family together. Please do sign their petition.

Lyndsey writes :

'For my family, changing these rules would mean that Tom is able to stay here in the UK to provide both financially and emotionally for his family, and to be a full time dad to our three-year old daughter Alara.

'Our second daughter could arrive any day and instead of embracing the joy of our family becoming four of us, we spend everyday on countdown to the Home Office's decision to make him leave and return to Turkey.

'Please sign this and help us to keep our family together and to help change the rules so other families don't suffer as we are.'

Saturday, 5 October 2013

Tom & Elizabeth

“When we vowed ‘till death do us part’ we had not factored in the divisive role played by UKBA and the Home Office.”

Tom is a British citizen and married to Elizabeth, from the USA.

They met in 2012 in Florida. Elizabeth wasn’t immune to Tom’s face, charm and British accent which make Americans swoon. Within six months, the couple was engaged, travelling back and forth to visit each other. Whilst not together, they spent hours on the phone and cherished the capabilities of Skype and Facetime which allowed them to see each other. But through it all, they were focused on one thing: the moment when the long-distance part of their love would end.

Tom and Elizabeth married in January 2013 with a lovely ceremony and reception in Washington, DC. Sitting in the anteroom of the church, Elizabeth recalls her emotions swirling. Theirs had been a whirlwind romance spanning an ocean. Now she faced the enormity of the moment, the date circled on her calendar had arrived, and like any other bride she felt on edge, a mixture of anticipation and tension. At last – after months apart she would marry the man she loved. They would be together.



This couple’s dreams are not unlike other couples in love. They longed to live life together: holding hands on the street, kissing at the doorstep, embracing in joy and sorrow, falling asleep entangled with each other, and sharing those unspoken moments – making memories. Tom and Elizabeth want to stand together and face the world. That was the whole idea behind getting married, after all.

Photograph © Peter Toth Photography

From the flowers to the car, the fair weather and the band – all the little details of the wedding went according to plan, and in their eyes, their big day was perfect. The couple could not have been more happy or more in love.

Photograph © Peter Toth Photography


They are back to having five time zones separate them; back to coordinating travel and long-distance phone calls. Though they vowed “till death do us part,” they hadn’t anticipated the divisive role UK Border Agency and Home Office would play.

It is even harder now to reconcile that they – as husband and wife - live thousands of miles apart, even though Tom meets the financial requirements.

Tom started a new company in March 2013, but was disappointed to learn that he cannot sponsor his wife to join him until the company has been in existence for one year to meet the strict evidential requirements of Paragraph 9 of the Appendix FM-SE, which require the latest annual tax return and 12 months' bank statements.

The company is doing well. Indeed, Tom has already earned the requisite £18,600 income, but it is only because they do not have certain documents for very valid and legitimate reasons, they have been advised not to apply at this time.

This evidential rule vaults form over substance and adds a further layer of red tape on self-employed persons, who must wait 12 months to sponsor a loved one – even more than the other categories of employment who need to show 6 months documentary evidence.

Elizabeth is a trained attorney and broadcast journalist.

 
Photograph © Peter Toth Photography

Wednesday, 18 September 2013

Tom & Olya

“The UK immigration process is lengthy, expensive and complicated...and thoroughly demeaning.”

Tom is a British citizen from the East Riding area, just west of York. His partner, Olya is from the Ukraine and lives in Kiev.

As Tom is a musician by profession, the couple has been lucky enough to travel all over Europe together for best part of the past two years. Their life together so far has been an adventure, full of all the care and love that anyone in a healthy relationship will know of. Olya is also lucky that as a linguist (fluent in English, Russian, Ukrainian, Spanish with some Polish and also now learning Greek) her employer allows her to work remotely, as long as she has a computer and wifi access, making their nomadic lifestyle possible.

They never had a problem obtaining visas for other European countries for Olya. However, when they decided it was time for Olya to come home with Tom, meet his friends and family they came across immigration horror.

Olya's passport is full of visas and stamps from visits all over Europe and indeed many parts from outside the region as well. The visa denial for a UK visit visa was completed unexpected. So they submitted a second application.



Flights were bought as required for the application and fees paid. Olya declared her savings and job status. Her parents provided 'emergency funds' just in case they’d be required, of over £1000. However the Home Office refused this application as well, stating that this amount was insufficient (even though Olya was only wanting to be here for two weeks); they also refused on the grounds that Tom did not declare his finances and prove that he could support Olya during her trip. Even though she didn’t actually need financial support from Tom given her own financial situation.

They made several visits to the visa application centres, which proved to be awful. The staff accepting applications were rude for no reason; Olya, an otherwise strong woman, broke down in tears after one such visit resulted in the staff humiliating her in public.

During a visit to Kiev in June 2012, they emailed to try and arrange another meeting. Around this time they met a number of younger Ukrainian friends – some without jobs or savings - who had applied for visas to the UK successfully. These were visitor visas just like the one being sought for Olya, except their reasons for visiting the UK were sightseeing and the club scene.

Tom and Olya are both, working people in a relationship. They’re bemused why they were being
denied a visa to see family and friends, while those for comparatively more trivial reasons were being granted the same type of visa, serving to highlight massive inconsistencies with visitor visa policies.

The couple submitted a visa application for the third time, going over the top with supporting documentation. The expected processing time passed and they still had no answer, and the date of their flights was fast approaching. A chaser call led to their being patronisingly told to "wait like everyone else has to".

On the day of the flight, Olya waited with her father outside the Passport Centre with her bags packed. The passport never came.



Another flight missed. Another chaser led to their being eventually told that the decision had been made some weeks ago, but the application was 'stuck in the system'.

The third refusal was a huge blow. Olya was deemed to have used 'deceptive means to obtain access to the UK'. An incredibly demeaning remark and unbelievable to the couple that anyone could come to that conclusion from their very standard paperwork.

Apparently the case handler thought it was suspicious that a large amount of money had entered Olya's bank account and disappeared after the previous visa refusal. Indeed, the person appeared to not have read the supporting paperwork explaining that the funds were a loan from Olya’s dad, and returned when not needed for the UK trip.

Olya was informed she could only make an administrative appeal and that the denial would remain on her record for a period of ten years.

Bear in mind, all this just for a visitor’s visa.



Tom is dreading the problems they will face when they decide to get married. With her language skills, countries should be falling over themselves to welcome Olya. Yet Tom fears that UK’s immigration policies would even reject her as the wife of a British citizen.

He never would have believed without firsthand experience, how discriminatory and contradictory his country’s immigration rules are.

Tom now regularly visits Ukraine where he tours successfully as a musician, selling out venues and generally being met with a great deal of support there. Olya has now met Tom’s family during a holiday in Cyprus. The couple remains closer than ever yet kept thousands of miles apart for ridiculous bureaucratic reasons.

Article 8 European Convention on Human Rights states: "Everyone has the right to respect for his private and family life, his home and his correspondence. There shall be no interference by a public authority with the exercise of this right except such as is in accordance with the law and is necessary in a democratic society in the interests of national security, public safety or the economic well-being of the country, for the prevention of disorder or crime, for the protection of health or morals, or for the protection of the rights and freedoms of others."

Tom’s certain this is not being honoured in their situation.

Olya on Twitter : https://twitter.com/olya_dzhygyr