Chrissie & Supon
“We are meant to be together, and we
will be.”
Chrissie is a British citizen is married to Supon, from a
Thai hilltribe. They are affectionately
known as "The Macadangdangs" by friends and family.
Chrissie always remembers they first day they met, on 2
November 2008. She was returning to
Chiang Mai in Thailand to catch up with friends. She was teaching an English class to elephant
mahouts when Supon approached her. The
first thing he said to her was "My name is, Supon and I'm a cheeky
bugger". Chrissie hasn’t stopped
laughing since that day.
She
fondly recalls the 2008 Loy Krathong festival, when together they lit a lantern
and Supon said to her "wish for something"...
Although having met in late 2008, and having visited again
twice during 2009, it wasn't until New Year's 2010, with the news of a formal
job offer in Chiang Mai, that Chrissie and Supon finally thought; "This is
our moment".
Chrissie returned to the UK for six months, working to pay
off her university debt and convincing her family that she’d be okay living and
working in Thailand. She spoke with
Supon every day, counting each day away until they would next see each other.
June 2010 came, one month left in the UK and Chrissie’s mum
was diagnosed with breast cancer. It was
a really emotional time for the family and whilst Chrissie will always carry
the guilt, she is grateful that her mother gave her blessings and encouraged
Chrissie to follow her heart.
Focusing on making a life with Supon was now Chrissie’s motivation.
They lived in a small bamboo hut with their
dog, based at the Elephant camp Supon worked at. Chrissie ferried herself between work in
Bangkok and Supon in Chiang Mai.
A year passed and Chrissie’s mum finally had the strength to
visit. For her birthday, Chrissie’s mum
said "all I want to do is see my daughter". It was a great few weeks.
November 2011 came and the couple decided to honour Supon's
family and culture and marry under Karen hill tribe tradition. Chrissie’s parents and sister flew over for
the wedding and things have been amazing ever since.
Chrissie’s family love Supon. Supon was granted a visitor visa in 2013,
coinciding unfortunately with Chrissie’s dad being diagnosed with prostate
cancer. Such a bittersweet moment.
Visiting the UK and showing Supon all the people and things she
told him about – just to have him see where she came from was a massive
deal. It made Chrissie realise how much she
misses her family and friends. It made her
realise she wanted to be there for her parents as they increasingly needed her
more. She feels she owes it to her
sister and family to now share the burden.
She also needs the comfort of family.
However Chrissie earns £1000 less than the £18,600 required
so everything is on hold.
Her wish when she lit the lantern in 2008; "If we are
meant to be together, let us find a way"...and she still believes
it.
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